Sunday, August 4, 2013

On Weddings and Friends

Our highschool barkada has been in the wedding bubble for more than a year now, first barkada wedding happened in February 2012 and then many of us followed after that, one in March, May, August (this is us!), September, November 2012 and then June this year and we are still not done. We still have 4 more weddings coming up (September, December 2013, May and October 2014).



I have not shaken off that wedding mode since we started planning until now, since whenever we get together, our forever topic is wedding planning. I admit, there are still things that I wish we had done during our wedding (like mingling with our guests more), but that was that, all I can do now is tell my friends the stuff that we wish we knew before our wedding day.

It's amazing how people handle the same situation in different ways. I have friends who were not stressed as much, and friends who were stressed soooo much more than we were. We have had disagreements on the budget and costs and suppliers, but in the end, what is important is that they will have the final say in their own wedding, and that all decisions will come from both parties and not just from one person. 

Weddings are such a happy occasion, even happier when you have your friends and families to help you from planning until the big day. I wish that for all our friends to enjoy not just on their wedding day but to also use the wedding planning to be closer and to know each other better. 

Happy Planning and Happy Wedding! :)

our soshikul barkada on our wedding


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